How To Let Go Of A Destroyed Relationship

Our blog is about bringing peace and love, and we always believe in the joy that love can bring into relationships. But as we all know, life is never a smooth ride and nobody is ever perfect. Without question, there would be bumpy roads awaiting you when you are in love with someone, and among these bumpy roads, the most challenging one would be when you are left with no choice but to let go of him or her.

Breaking up is hard to do. But when you love someone, you would want nothing else but to see him or her happy, and if he or she is happy being released, you would have to do it no matter how heavy your heart is.

It is actually not because he or she detests you, but it is most probably because both of you are going in different frequencies, and he or she just feels better off when you set him or her free.

When you are stuck in this situation, you know you have to get out of it someday. It is a painful process, but it would be pointless to dwell over it knowing that it is never going to work. Perhaps some of you here are enduring this predicament right now and are finding ways to mend your broken hearts. It is always possible to talk it out to friends or family members, but eventually, it is up to you to get yourself moving on from being haunted by the past. So how would you let go and move on from your destroyed love? Let us see what can be done to solve this problem:

Analyze whether your expectations of a life partner are too low. You are a human who deserves to be loved by someone who would stick with you till the end. Why tread into dangerous waters? Why lead a miserable life with someone who has betrayed you and left you alone? You should be leading a happy life, with a trustworthy and loyal person. So set higher expectations. You are entitled to do it.

Do not let your mind keep wondering about your former partner. When you do that, you are backing off from achieving your goals and dreams and depriving yourself of a better future. Concentrate on the rest of your aspects of life that you still can look forward to and go for.

Do not perceive everyone the same just because of your past relationship that did not work. Not all men and women are such hurtful people. Take your time to find it in your heart to believe once again. The beauty of love is that there is someone for everyone. All you need to do is have faith that there is a good person out there who will shower you with all the love you need.

Take that bitter experience as something that you can learn from rather than something you would sulk about. That is what an experience in life is for, even in relationships. If you can do that, things could turn out better than you thought, especially when you have finally found the right person.

Things in this world are never perfect. There is always a point in time where someone breaks your heart. But do not let that heartbreak bring you down to the ground. Be a hero, and pick yourself up. If you have to let go of your loved one, let him or her go and instill a strong belief in your heart that someday you will get the happiness you want. Yes, it is not an easy process, but you can do it if you make an effort to. Perhaps you may want to share with us if you had experienced having to let go of someone with a broken heart. We are here to listen and maybe help you out too.

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Speaking of letting go, we here are currently having this problem of letting go of three things. No it has nothing to do with relationships, but it has a lot to do with a tag by our dearest Jesse. Yes, she has tagged us to list three things that we simply cannot let go of and cannot live without.

These are the three things that we are talking about:

Family
They are our flesh and blood and they are the ones who have stuck with us through thick and thin. They are the people whom we should all the more treasure in our lives. At times conflicts would arise between our families and us, but at the end of the day, we know that our lives would never be the same again without them by our sides.

Food
People say money makes the world go round, but what makes our world go round is food. Food is a huge necessity for all of us anyway and we all need it in our daily lives. But of course, we always tell ourselves that we eat to live, not live to eat. So we try not to stuff ourselves too much with it as well. Still, we can never let go of food. There is never a day that we would forget about food glorious food.

Blogging
This blog has become a major part of our lives and we would feel that something is amiss if we do not get to attend to our blog. It is through our blog that we could showcase our writing skills and knowledge, and most importantly, it is through our blog that we made a lot of amazing friends. Letting go of blogging would mean letting go of our wonderful friends here. We would not be this happy bunch of people if not for the love and support from all of you. We need blogging and we need you all.

We have let you heard from us. Now we would like to hear from you, our chosen ones!

Jamilla
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