
Our dear
Jean had tagged us on a post she had put up in conjunction with Valentine’s Day. Even though the day is over, we should continue spreading the good word of love to the ones we ought to cherish during our lifetime. Our family, friends, our special ones, and even our pets if we keep one!
Not too long ago, someone had paid a visit to our blog and stumbled upon our article on
‘How To Let Go Of A Destroyed Relationship’. Thereafter, using our comment box, he had taken the opportunity to remind all of us how important it is to cherish the wonderful moments that you get to spend with that special someone, because it is indeed the key to an unbreakable connection and everlasting eternal love.
Our commenter had actually gone through the very painful experience of losing the one person he had been in a relationship with for over six years, as he had not taken good care of her the way he should have. He is now trying to win her heart once again, and he had even shared with us that if he can patch things up with her, he would promise to love her even more and give her everything she needs. We wish him best of luck!
We cannot deny the fact that there are times when we take our loved ones for granted, perhaps because we are too distracted by our education or career, or by the circle of friends that we have. Or it could simply be because we do not get our priorities right!
When we are too busy with worldly affairs, our minds would seem to be too preoccupied, and when that happens, we would get all stressed up, so much so that the people we love will be turned into punching bags rather than sources of comfort. But remember, they are human beings too, and as human beings, they have feelings to be taken care of as well.
The relationship is not all about you, but rather, it is about you and the ones closest to your heart. Self-centredness can definitely lead to mass destruction of the relationship.
As for those who enjoy mingling with friends, always take note that your loved ones should be given the top priority. Yes, it is true that we need friends around us, but isn’t that special someone the best friend whom you have been looking for? Hence, it is utmost essential for you to treasure him or her as someone whom you can relate to and turn to for emotional support, especially when he or she regards you the same way.
Another fact that cannot be deprived of is that we tend to realize how important someone is to us once we have lost him or her, but unfortunately, it would have been too late to amend things by then.
For most people, if they had loved and lost during their lifetime, they would most probably not want to love again as they do not wish to endure the pain of being in love anymore. As the saying goes, once bitten, twice shy.
Therefore, it is always best that when you have found someone to love, make it work! Love the person like you will never get to love ever again. He or she does not necessarily need to be overly-pampered like a king or queen. Showing how much you care for him or her and putting him or her first before many other things would certainly be sufficient to build a heart to heart connection that will last forever.
When you truly love someone, you have actually made a vow to be the life partner who will hold on to him or her through the sunshine and the rain. The words that you have used in your vow should be supported by your actions. That is what it takes to bring meaning to your love and to learn how to fully appreciate the existence of that special someone.
Last but not least, even in the midst of your hectic schedule, spare at least five minutes of your time and tell that someone that you love him or her, whether by word of mouth, by phone or by text messaging. Believe us! Saying those three little words would bring a smile or even tears of joy to his or her face.
So with that, we at NAFASG would like to take this opportunity to thank all of you for your love and support towards us, and for sending us your valuable comments right here. You are all never forgotten in our hearts and minds. We love you all very much!
-Nafa Danfad